In Part 1 of this interview, Amy Gigi Alexander talked about writing and travel. She has many projects in mind and this interview explores how you can take up so many projects and do justice to each of them. Very often these days, we find ourselves steeped in a quagmire of ideas and possibilities– the challenge lies in taking your ideas forward.
You are a fan of bucket lists– you wrote one that was a huge motivation for you to experience life– what is the best way to create one?
I’m huge fan of bucket lists. I think a bucket list and what is on it shows the character of the person who wrote it. These lists are not always about quick experiences which are checked off in succession—sometimes they are tasks that take years.
I’m about to write a new bucket list this month, and one tool I will use is to imagine what I am afraid to do. I think bucket lists are useful to get over fears and overcome the blocks that we set up for ourselves. Anything I think I cannot do will be on my new bucket list.
In addition, bucket lists are a wonderful way to find your sense of humor. On my last list I had things which still make me smile that I did them: embarrassing silly acts that make me take life a little less seriously. Be in a parade. Sing in front of a crowd. Try stand-up comedy.
Bucket lists are not just about saving your life—they are also for helping you find your joy.
Tell us about your upcoming book projects and other social media projects and what inspired them.
I have three book projects happening right now. The first the Conversations series. This is a series of long format interviews with travel writers and writers of multiple genres about travel themes. The idea came to me because I was looking for such a series online, and couldn’t find anything. My dear friend Patricia Schultz who wrote 1000 Places to See Before You Die gave me the best advice once: “If you don’t see what you want out there, make it. Create it yourself.” So Conversations was something that came out of that advice. The series is online on my website, also on Facebook page, and will be published as a book in the future.
The second book project is the travel memoir I am writing about India. I lived-and loved—in India for several years, and this book centers on five months of those experiences in Calcutta, West Bengal, and a small village in Bihar. It is a story about falling in love with a city, a love affair that is passionate and intense, and at the same time, working with Mother Teresa’s nuns and questioning the validity of my beliefs and struggles with my own humanity.
The third book project takes place in Panama, and centers around an eight month period I lived in a remote jungle village with a group Ngabe Bugle indigenous people who had invited me to live with them. It is a story about losing oneself and finding oneself in a new way, and also it is the story of the proud and fierce people who I lived with and honored me with their experiences and teachings.
And of course, there are other book projects floating around– one is a travelogue about Varanasi and the Ganges. However, these are the first three to complete.
Online, I have my website, which features my own stories, a blog, the interviews and a guest collection of curated tales; the Walking Writing Women Facebook and Twitter pages; and my own personal Facebook and Twitter pages.
Tips on how to use social media. You curate multiple pages and causes- how do you do this effectively?
Well, first off I think people get the impression that social media is a time drain. I have the opposite feeling—to me it very fast, easy, and doesn’t take a great deal of time. I do schedule the amount of time I spend on it each day, and that time is divided into four parts: (1) my own posts (2) responding to comments and personal messages (3) seeing what others are doing on social media (4) sharing the work and posts of others. Once I hit the time limit, I don’t visit social media again that day. However, I still might go on it to have a messaging conversation. The trick is spread your time throughout the day in segments, so that you are always interacting and always seeing what interests others.
My social media tips:
(1) Be inspiring
(2) Make your page a destination that people want to visit because they feel good when they do.
(3) Share the writing of others
(4)Don’t use hashtags and other annoyances unless it is a theme or an event
(5)Thank others often and by name
(6) Use messaging to deepen the conversations that start on your posts
(7) Choose a few things that you are known for and consistently post about those things.
(8) Authenticity. Love what you post.
(9) Choose five random people each day to visit: look at their page, check out their links, and their websites, and comment on their posts
(10)Be okay with deleting comments without explanations and deleting/blocking and unfollowing people who harass or comment inappropriately
I usually ask every writer who is featured on this blog for a creative prompt- I call it Project Inspire. Give me your version of it. A picture, a story, a tweet…anything you think could get a blogger inspired to write or pack her bags and travel.
“I’ve always been fascinated by risk-takers. Maybe not so much risk-takers as people who listen to some inner voice and follow it where it takes them. They follow it even though they aren’t sure where they are going or how things will turn out. They go anyway. These people are the great travelers, voyagers, discoverers. And I’m not just curious about them: I need them. For life without them as guides is like being in a beautiful palace with all the lights turned off and the curtains drawn.
There have been times in my life I felt suffocated, that I walked as though there was a pillow in front on my face, blocking my sight, my speech. Muffled. Closed. Squinting at shadows. Sometimes it has taken me awhile to figure out that the pillow is there, and that my words aren’t being heard, that I’m blind. It takes me time to see that blurred lipstick shallow breaths are not sustaining. That’s when I start searching for risk-takers and I follow their trail, usually in the form of a road trip, a journey towards. Road trips, particularly of the driving-a-car-for-hours-and-hours variety, to some hoped-for destination, sight, or encounter, have a way of unshackling.”
-from Freefall in the Mojave
Thank you so much for your time Amy! It has been a wonderful experience talking to you and learning about how writing can be used productively to share experiences and learn from it. For it is not just the journey that matters but the telling too that makes the story a gem.
© neelthemuse, 2015
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